Friend Compare and Contrast

A Friend His name Is If you ever met this Individual you would certainly have a candid or bad impression of him. Ive basically braggy up with him. We attended the resembling school all from elementary through high school, grew up in the same neighborhood. You could enjoin that we both had a commons thing. Im not sure if meeting this person was a way to t for each one me a few things or not. I always wanted to think that him and I would get along and be total friends. Maybe thats the reason why I have kept him my friend for so long. Now days he re ramps as my roommate, I dont know if that session was a mistake or not.Time will narrate or maybe it has already. His views are not like tap at all. We were brought up completely different as was taught under a Latin background and him Well, thats a different story. Ill explain ab out us he and have completely different personalities, different and same friends and diverse value-systems about education. Ill explain this through. For example, I believe that personality Is one If the important things that leads a relationship, even estimable as friends. When you think of someone you want to be friends with you think of the same things you might voice with that person.To me, personality is one of the principal(prenominal) ones. When I met Matt I was in 4th grade, a young child, you could say. I didnt really know much about how a person should be or how he should act as I was Just growing up. He come outed Like an okay minor and since we lived In the same neighborhood and hung out with the same friends I decided to start talking to him to see how things went. At the beginning everything was Just dandy but as time progressed I started to menu him being a controlling, self-importance-righteous individual. His personality was completely different than mine. I was always a caring person but he Was more pip me first, me second and me third kind of guy. For example, we always used to play football at my house, a quick game of 5 on 5. This might seem silly but when I saw him tackle someone I always used to see how much of a fall apart person he wanted to be than the one being tackled. I could see that he was trying to show the different how much of greater man he was. after he would tackle someone he would slap them and say something rude or racist. According to him Anyone that isnt white isnt anything at all. It might seem harsh to say but to me thats what he comes off as.Im the complete opposite. Sure Im competitive too, but not to that level. If I was to beat someone at anything of racetrack I would hilarity and such but I would never demise that person to the point where the individual would feel less than me. Its a passive personality, me, to a very assertive one, him. I wasnt the only one who would think about him this way, there were also our friends. Since Matt and I lived in the same neighborhood and went to the same school, we were bound to share the same friends. We were all group and till this day we still call ourselves the farms boys.Sharing the same friends brought upon me him talking Enid my back, and others too. Since we all always used to hang out with each other there wasnt much I could do. I couldnt Just leave him and the others behind, I wouldnt have friends But now I see that he was no friend at all. Some of my friends that were also buddies of him viewed him as I started too, mean. Sure the kid had his 1 OFF good clays Ana Dad out Nils Dad were a lot more tan Nils good MY Eternal Dalton won was also friends with him till this day thinks Matt Just thinks for himself. I agree completely.Although we shared the same friends, we get acrossed them differently and vice-versa. The ones that would hang out with Matt the most, would view him as a superior you could say but still saw that aggressiveness in him. Now take in consideration this was all during out middle school phase where we were all trying to be a cool kid. He was the kid that could sa y one thing and turn everyone against you, at least everyone in the neighborhood. Even if it was Just a rumor, trying to fight your side to prove it wasnt true was a pain. So as the saying goes keep your friends close, but your enemies closer.Dont get me wrong. I dont consider the kid an enemy Just a bad seed. Even when it came grim to education, we would have completely different feed ethics about it. Ever since middle school, Matt has always been on top of his school work. He rarely had to study because the material we were going over Just came easily to him. Not with me. I had to take my time and check, review and then review some more before I could even think about acing a test. Although he was a smart kid He always had a way to brag about how well he did in school, or how much better he was at this than me.While me on the other hand, when I did good on something I would maybe how him Just to get a sense that him Im better than him. I know it sounds a little self righteous o f me, but thats how I felt. Mats work ethics when it came to school would never compare to mine. We had a test in our English class once and of course he got a better grade than me and Just boasted about it. While me, I kept quiet and was Just proud that I got what I deserved. Its around like he was trying to prove to me that he could beat me or anyone at whatever he tried. In this case it was education. When we took our Sat, I got a better score than him.His excuse was l went out the ay before therefore I wasnt at my fullest. I didnt understand why he couldnt Just have said, good Job man or something along those lines. Although one thing that I have to admit is that him and I do have a very good habit of turning assignments in on time and doing pretty well on them. We both like to exceed ourselves on our work. That part of his work ethic is something I can compare to me in a good way. In a nutshell, my friend Matt is one of a kind. Him and I have our differences when it comes down to personality, friends and education Then again everyone has their differences.He has more of an l own everything personality, while mine is a caring and courteous one. We do share the same friends and treat them differently, he with a kingship attitude and I with a friendly one. While when it comes down to education we both share some same characteristics and attributes. We finish our work with a timely manner even if he Just gets out of bed the day of and finishes while I take a week to do it. Now, Matt resides as my roommate. For now, I think it was a huge idea taking this mini adventure with him but only time will tell if I am right. After all, not everyone is perfect.